Come and Join Miss Kris from the MISS Show and Scoutmaster Jerry from the Scoutmaster Minute Show for a PTCMedia meet and Greet on Tuesday the 27th of July. Bring your lunch and come by and say hello.
Bring your lunch on Saturday the 31st of July for a greet time meeting MISS Shannon from the MISS Show and Scoutmaster Jerry from the Scoutmaster Minute Podcast. Fellowship, fun, and even some onsight Podcasting.. then stick around for the Shinning Light Across America Arena Show and celebrate the BSA’s 100th Anniversary with your friends from PTCMedia!
Have a Great Scouting Day!!! We will see you at JAMBO!!
Some say there is a fine line between being the Scoutmaster and a Dad when your boy is in your troop.
I think this is an interesting discussion and one that I live with every day.
I have two sons that are in my troop and my Jamboree troop also. So when the subject of the “Fine Line” came up at a Jamboree meeting a while back it got me thinking, is there a fine line and if so, where is it? What is it? and how do we deal with it?
So the Fine line, Where and what is it? I suppose the line is one that real from a few perspectives, first from the view point of those not in the relationship. The folks that look at a Father that is his sons Scoutmaster and wonder if there is favoritism being played or lesser expectations toward the son. Then there is the point of view of the Scoutmaster that has his son or sons in his troop, how does he maintain a Father/Son relationship while not playing favorites or giving his boy a break. Then there is the point of view of the Son, the Scout who has his Dad as his Scoutmaster. This must be the toughest position of all. This young man is constantly bombarded with peer pressure and the comments of “he’s the Scoutmaster’s son”…
So there is the relationship issue, in all of these cases. So the question then is how is this dealt with?
First, I will tell you that every Scout needs to be treated equally, even the Scoutmasters son (s). This is the best way to make everyone Scouting experience fun and without to much drama.
So here is where it gets sticky for the Scoutmaster. No one has the right to treat the Scout with anything but respect and equality. Just because the Scout is the Scoutmasters son does not make him a target for comments or unequal treatment. Now the Scoutmaster has a big part in making this happen. He can not treat his son with any favor, that is not to say that he dismisses his son, but he needs to maintain equality in the treatment of every Scout in the Troop.
Leadership positions, elections, awards and advancement all need to be conducted by the book. I was asked once if the Scoutmaster should conduct the Scoutmaster conference for his son, I say yes. After all he is the Scoutmaster, the Scout (his son) does the work and they have a conference… there should be no issues there.. as long as it is done by the book. The conference should be completed just like every other conference, in the open, scheduled, and within the appropriate conditions of youth protections and BSA policy.
On camp outs and other troop activities it is OK to be a Dad with your son, but the fine line would dictate that be a Dad, but not at the expense or neglect of the Troop.
Your son is part of a Patrol, he is hanging out with his patrol mates and you should encourage that as much as possible.
I have made it a point to spend time with both of my sons in a Father/ Son relationship throughout their Scouting lives. We do this by hiking together, jumping in a canoe together and I make sure that while at summer camp I sit with them during meals on occasion.
There are times and places that the Fine line can be crossed, but never if the troop is effected in a negative manner. A good rule of thumb is to think about the Scout. If he is made to feel uncomfortable or picked on, then you need to back off. I have seen Scoutmasters that spend too much time with their son and the appearance is that of playing favorites.. “Little Johnny does not have to collect fire wood.. he’s the Scoutmasters son”. That kind of stuff will rip at the patrol and troop and the Scout will start to feel rejected by his peers.
I would just say that there may be a fine line, but it is not one that reduces the Father and Son experience in the Scouting program… when the leader understands this and watches out for the good of the Troop.
Have a Great Scouting Day!
And before you know it it is the end of June… geez where does the time go?
Well let me give you an update of where I am.
First, the Jamboree experience is a lot more than I thought it would ever be, and we are not there yet. 21 days from today, I will be a happy Scouter with all the logistical issues, administrative tasks, and the building of a Troop behind me. It will be time to just have fun at the Jamboree.
We have assembled a great Troop. Fantastic young men that I am confident will assist me in having the time of my life. We have a great SPL and equally great Junior leaders. My Assistant Scoutmaster are among the finest Scouters I have worked with and the young men. Well they are set for the adventure and experience of the 100th Anniversary National Jamboree.
Second, the home troop is doing well. We continue to grow and develop and high adventure is the name of the game. At our last PLC, the Scouts looked into increasing our high adventure activities and in August we will climb the third highest peak in Oregon, South Sister, part of the Three Sisters Mountains.
And finally, the Podcast is doing well. Listener feedback is telling us that we are doing a good job and want more.. so you will get more.
I got a great new recorder for fathers day and am loving it. It is the Zoom H2 digital recorder and the sound is fantastic! So look for more shows and great topics. If there is something you want to hear, let us know. You can email me, leave me feedback here or at the PTCmedia forums or even use our Scoutmaster Minute Listener line at 206-350-5430.
I really want to hear from you with your ideas, suggestions, and comments.
Have a Great Scouting Day!