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20 Questions

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So lets start the New Year off right… looking back and learning from the past and setting goals for a better future.  Knowing who you are and where you want to go.  Setting a vision for the new year and seeing it to reality.
Lofty to start the new year out this way… right?
Well, I once heard a wise cat instruct a girl named Alice when she asked “Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?” “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to.” “I don’t much care where –” “Then it doesn’t matter which way you go.”.
Without direction, a road map, a vision, It wont matter which way you go and chances are you won’t get there.
I believe it was also Alice that stated “I can’t go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.”  And you are.  Today you are different from you were last year this time.  So, who are you and where do you want to go?
If you have been to Wood Badge, or if you are planning on going, you will have seen or will see a list of 20 questions.  These questions are sent to you prior to you attending the course.  They get you to the trail head of your vision.  Once you answer those questions, you have a better understanding of who you are and where you want to go.  Starting your first steps on creating your vision.
This vision may be long-term, short-term, or based on what is happening right now.  Let’s set Wood Badge aside for right now.  I don’t want you thinking in terms of a “ticket”  Let’s focus on you and what you want out of this coming year.
Close your eyes and think about what your life looks like in December of 2015.
Is it what you want?  If not, change the course now.  Make a plan, draw a picture, and go get it.
Here are the 20 questions that will help you figure this out.
Answer them to yourself.  Share it with someone who will be taking the journey with you.  Most important.. write the answers down.  Everything is writing.  That which is scheduled will happen.  So write it all down and schedule your plan.  We will get into more about this in later posts.
The questions:
What do I feel are my greatest strengths?
What strengths do others notice in me?
What do I most enjoy doing?
What qualities of character do I most admire in others?
Who is a person who has made a positive impact on my life?
Why was that person able to have such significant impact?
What have been my happiest moments in life?
Why were they happy?
If I had unlimited time and resources, what would I choose to do?
When I daydream, what do I see myself doing?
What are the three or four most important things to me?
When I look at my work life, what activities do I consider of greatest worth?
What can I do best that would be of worth to others?
What talents do I have that no one else really knows about?
If there are things I feel I really should do, what are they?
What are my important roles in life?
In each of those roles, what are my most important lifetime goals?
In five years, what role do I see for myself in Scouting? (if you are a non Scouter.. insert your own)
What would I really like to be and to do in my life?
What are the most important values I use to guide and motivate my actions?
Don’t just answer these, sit down and really ponder each question.  Some will be easy and some will require some thought.  Take you time.  We are talking about you here.  Be a little selfish in setting goals for you.  What you do now, will help others later.
Look forward, reflect on yesterday but we are looking forward.  We can’t change anything from yesterday, but we can learn from it and get better.
So who do you want to be?  What do you want life to look like?  It’s up to you.
I revisited this yesterday in setting my goals for 2015.  I have set 22 goals.  22 stops along the trail of 2015 that will make me the person that I want to be in December.  They are in writing and have due dates.  Everything from being Debt Free to collecting OA pocket flaps.  Yeah, patches will make me a better person believe it or not.
I believe in this process and know that it works.  Patience and perseverance are important and staying focused and on task.  Perfect, no, at least not in my case.. I am a work in progress.  But willing to work.
We will talk more about this in future posts.  Go answer your 20 questions.
Have a Great Scouting Day!

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New Year 2015

newyearWell, here we are.  The closing of the curtain of one year, the opening of another allowing us to move on to the next.
It has been a great year for the Schleining’s.  We count ourselves as blessed.  Looking back at the year that we fondly take a look back at and we can rest knowing that we did our best, we achieved some goals while falling short in others.  As a family we faced challenges and victories.  We enjoyed watching our children grow.  Our youngest graduated from High School and started a great College Football career.  Our twins continue to bring joy to our lives, John in the Army and Katelyn in College.  It was nice to have them all home for the holiday’s!
Looking back on the blog, it too grew.  The blog has been something that has required much thought and evaluation for me this year.  Why do I do it?  What impact does it have?  Is it worth the time and effort?  These questions and more have forced me to think long and hard about this blog.  It certainly has an impact and is totally worth the effort.  I am a believer that the numbers never lie.  They may not always tell the whole story, but they measure those things that you believe or need affirmation on.  They become a story about the story.
So I looked at some of the year-end numbers of the blog.
Scouters from 8 different Countries are visiting the blog.  I found it interesting that there is a Scouter out there from Mongolia that pays us visits from time to time.
I view the blog as a community.  That community is only as good as all of us having a discussion on how we better deliver the promise of Scouting.  Comments this year increased.  This tells me that our discussion is happening.  This increase is significant this year and has kept me going at times.
The blog was viewed 48,628 times this year.  That number is down, but the number of followers on twitter and Facebook have gone up.  Some visitors are getting the blog directly to a feed so they do not click-through the blog.
This is a great thing as social media has become a greater part of the blog.
I tried some give away’s this year.  Both of them were successful in that some one won!
Most blogs do give away’s to increase viewers and create email lists.  I did neither with our give away’s.  I did ask for “likes” on the last one, just trying to see where the blog would land in social media.  Maybe the average age of our readers is not into that sort of thing… it really made little or no impact.   I kinda wanted to take over the internet for a week…but unfortunately the Kardashians once again stole our thunder.
So what’s next?
Today I sat down and put together my goals for 2015.  Within my list are a few or the blog.  Last year I did a blog ticket.  I finished most of the ticket, but had to modify it.  This year I will try to post three times a week, at least one of those targeted to be video.
This should generate lots of good content and keep us focused on what and why we do this… to deliver the promise of Scouting.
I hope that this blog had helped you in some way.  I hope that this coming year is a great one for you.
Have a Blessed 2015!!  Set your goals and take charge of you and your life.

Have a Great Scouting …. Year!

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Merry Christmas

BLSantaWishing all a very Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year!
I would especially like to thank everyone that subscribes to the blog.  Thanks for hanging in there for another year.
Welcome to all the new subscribers.  I hope that you find something in this that you can use in life and in delivering the promise of Scouting.
Again, from My Family to Yours,  Merry Christmas and a Wonderful Holiday to you.
Have a Great Scouting… Christmas!

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And the Winner is…

The winner of the Solo stove and Solo 900 pot give away is….
I want to thank everyone for some great comments.  The create the caption had me entertained  for the last week and I hope you had fun with it!
It was fun to read the comments, unfortunately I only have one set to give away.
We will do this again in the future.
Congratulations to muralt!  You win!  Rather than randomly select a winner, I had a panel of caption experts… my family pick the winner.  5/5 all picked muralt and his caption, “Hmmm…I wonder, if I sing a Christmas carol SOLO will more cooksets appear?”
I hope you enjoy the set as much as I do.
Send me your address via email, tbirdironchef@gmail.com and I will get it in the mail for you.
Have a Great Scouting Day!

Hmmm…I wonder, if I sing a Christmas carol SOLO will more cooksets appear?

Hmmm…I wonder, if I sing a Christmas carol SOLO will more cooksets appear?

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Cold Weather Camping – Sleep System

photo courtesy of Thermarest

photo courtesy of Thermarest

Getting a good nights sleep is an important part of any camp out, and very important when camping in the cold.  Sleeping in the cold creates some anxiety in young Scouts.  While the Scout is up and moving he can control his level of warmth.  Teaching the Scout that it is possible to be warm in the winter will help him get a good nights sleep.
First, lets talk gear.
When I talk gear for sleeping, I refer to it as a sleep system.  The system may vary depending on conditions, temperature, and he person.
The sleep system consists if the Sleeping bag, the sleeping pad (insulation), and sleep clothing.  You may add to the system a sleeping bag liner, a bivy sack, and of course a pillow.
The sleeping bag is the base of the system.  The rating of the bag needs to be at least 20 degrees.  Lover is preferred especially when the temps are known to frequently dip below 20 degrees.  Adding the sleeping bag liner will add another 10 degrees of warmth to you in the bag and is a light weight, inexpensive option to adding warmth.
Down versus Synthetic?  It really does not matter.  They are equally as warm, down is going to cost more, but you will get your savings in weight.  Down needs to stay dry to keep warm.  Synthetic materials fair better than down when wet or damp.  Which is an important consideration when coaching Scouts on which type of bag to purchase.
It used to be popular opinion to wear as little as possible when in your sleeping bag, now however, your clothing is considered a part of your sleep system.
First thing to remember is whatever you decide to wear, it needs to be clean and dry.  For most that means wearing a clean set of poly pro long underwear.  Again, keep in mind that it is easier to stay warm than to re warm.  Change into your “sleeping clothing” when you are warm.  Boil up some water and drink a hot beverage.  While you are drinking, boil up enough water to put in a water bottle.  Throw it in your sleeping bag as you change into your sleep clothes.   Hand warmers are also a good way to preheat the bag.
A change of your socks is also a great idea.  If you are like me, your feet are the first thing to get cold.  Dry socks going into a sleeping bag is fantastic and will keep you warmer.  Find a real thick pair of wool socks, you know, the kind that you would never hike in but look super comfy.  Wear them at night to keep your feet warm.
Possumdown socks or a good thick merino wool sock are what I find to work the best.
The set up of your gear is important.  Get out of the elements.
Don’t sleep in low ground.  Cold air settles in low ground.  When selecting your sleep area, where you pitch your tent, make sure you stay on the upper part of the slope.  If you must pitch camp in low ground, dig a sump outside of the door of your tent.  This will pull the cold air away from you as you sleep.
Vent your Tent.  If you fail to vent you will wake up wet, condensation will form in your tent.  You can expect a little, but if you don’t vent you will certainly get too much moisture in your tent.  This is bad for your gear and also will make your packing a bit harder.
The sleeping bag liner is a great piece of gear.  It is perhaps the biggest addition to my winter gear.  Adding ten degrees to my sleeping bag, it is made of fleece, which absorbs some moisture from my breath at night, keeps my bag dry, and takes away the feel of cold nylon as I slip into my bag.
Getting a great nights sleep is critical when camping.  Staying warm is key.  Knowing your sleep system and how to use it is an important skill in winter camping.
We will talk more about winter camping in our next post.
Have a Great Scouting Day!

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Solo Stove Give Away!

Create the CaptionToday I was putting up the Christmas lights and getting the tree ready to decorate.  Carols being sung in the background and the smell of Christmas in the air.  When what to my wandering mind did ah ha!!!  A give away of gear!
So here is the way it’s going to work… Create the Caption.
1st.  You must “Like” this post.
2nd. In the comments section create a caption for this picture!
3rd.  “Like” us on Facebook.  If you already “like” us on Facebook, Thank You!
The caption that I like the most wins!
What do you win?  A brand new, in the box, Solo Stove and the Solo Stove 900 Pot!  This is a great prize!
The winner will be picked on December 21st, 2014.
Good Luck!  I can’t wait to see the comments!
Have a Great Scouting Day!

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Cold Weather Camping 2015

>The harder the challengeCamping in the cold is adventurous and fun.  It poses challenges and requires more training to ensure a safe, fun time spent in the winter camping.
I love cold weather camping, it is perhaps some of my favorite camping.  Since becoming a Scoutmaster, I have taken pride in sharing that love of winter camping with the Scouts of my Troop.  On average, we camp about 3 times a year in a cold weather environment.  We have been very successful during these camp outs because of the training that we do before the outing.
So what do we do to make our winter outings successful? Training, accountability, and skills development.
Training.
Cold weather camping all starts with good training.  We have a rule, not a policy, that if a Scout does not attend all of the training he does not go on cold weather camp outs.
We do this simply for safety.  The safety of the scout and his buddies.  Any high risk activity requires training above and beyond your typical camping skills.
Cold weather injury prevention takes a good portion of the training.  We teach the Scouts first how to prevent cold weather injuries.
Developing the skills of the Scout to prepare for camping in the cold, identify those symptoms of cold weather injuries and then treatment.  It should be noted that as stated we average about three cold weather camp outs a year as a Troop, and when I refer to cold weather camp outs, I am talking about sub freezing temperatures.  For the past ten years we have been using this training plan and have never had a cold weather injury.  I suppose I should pay respect to my Scouting friends in Alaska and Minnesota.. we do not get the temps you all get and I would think you all have similar training programs.  Cold weather injuries are cold weather injuries no matter where you are.
Subjects under the topic of cold weather injuries include; Hypothermia, Frost Bite, Chill Blains, Frost nip, snow blindness, and immersion foot.
We move on from injuries to layering and proper wear of clothing.  We discuss how and when to layer up or down and the right clothing for the outing.  When it comes to clothing, we teach that it is easier to stay warm than to re-warm.  The idea that re-warming takes time and energy that you may want to save.
Clothing plays a major role in Cold weather camping.  Not just a lot of clothing, but the right clothing.  Moving from cotton shirts that keep moisture on the body thus cooling you, to synthetic shirts that wick the sweat away from you.  Jackets that insulate as well as protect from the elements.  A layering system that allows you to move as well as stand around.  Gloves that work for completing camp tasks as well as keeping your fingers, hands, and wrist warm.
Hats that warm and protect from wind while keeping your head dry.
There is a lot more that goes into developing your clothing list.  Keeping in mind that you still have to carry it in your pack, bulk plays a part in your packing list.  Extra socks are always a must, consideration needs to be made as to when you are going to change them, where you carry them, and how many do you need.  A thick pair of wool socks to sleep in may be packed in with your sleep system while your smart wool socks worn for hiking and moving around camp may be packed on top for easy access.
If you are like me, once your feet get cold, I am cold.  So maintaining warmth by frequent changing of socks is a must for me.
Part of the training program is a discussion of using existing gear.  Using a three season tent  to stand up to heavy snow and winds.  Adding a layer in a sleeping bag to give an additional ten degrees of warmth.  And how to make your stove the most efficient it can be in the cold.
A big area of our preparation for cold weather camping is the matter of accountability.  This is a touchy subject for some, but it is a matter of safety and therefore non negotiable.  A Scout must attend the four meetings leading to the first winter camp out.  This way he gets the training required and has an opportunity to work with the rest of the troop on the skills needed for winter outings.
Being accountable to one another is an important part of this process.  The Scouts are accountable to one another.  When they understand that they can not have a “me” attitude, they start to pay close attention to what their buddy is doing and how they are a member of that team.  We teach that cold weather injury prevention is a leaders responsibility.  Leadership and Discipline are the two key components in cold weather camping.  Leaders that care for their patrols will keep an eye on them.  They will watch for the signs of cold weather issues.  They will keep their patrol motivated an on task.  They start building that high performance team with the understanding that they are all in this together.  It takes the whole patrol watching out for each other, pitching in with camp chores, set up, take down, meal prep, etc. that makes the experience one they won’t forget.
When we talk about accountability we need to ensure that the Scout understands that he is an important part in the safety of his buddy and himself.  Most Scouts will go through their Scouting life following the leader.  Cold weather camping forces the issue of leadership on each Scout.
Accountability starts with the Scout being required to attend the meetings and training.  If the Scout fails to attend the required meetings and training the result is the Scout not being able to attend the outing.  When it comes to this we stand firm.  Training and developing the required skills are important, when a Scout does not get the training, he is setting himself up for a possible injury or at least increasing the risk of himself and his buddies.
The Scout is accountable for his attitude.  A lack of enthusiasm for the outing or having a negative attitude is not a good fit in the group dynamic in the cold weather environment.  Being able to keep that positive outlook is important.  You will need it when the conditions seem to be fighting you and you feel as though the task is out of hand.  Understanding that you can and will get through the conditions is mostly in your attitude.
We will leave this discussion right here for now… we will pick up with the skills discussion in our next post.
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Have a Great Scouting Day!

COLD WEATHER TIP

Warm up socks and boot insoles by keeping them in the sleeping bag next to you.

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Stoves? What you can use.

WhisperliteAs with many other things in Scouting, some “rules” get made up as they go.  Cell Phones?  NO.. No electronics on Scouting Outings.  Not written down anywhere from the BSA, but ask many Scouters and they will proclaim this as gospel.
Knives, same thing.  Throw that subject out at a Round Table and you will get 50 different “policies” on what can and can not be used.
So, lets talk about one of my favorite subjects.  Stoves.  According to my wife, I have a stove addiction.  I have many makes and models.  Various fuel types and uses.  Yeah, I like stoves.  My go to stoves are the Fancee Feast stove, the one I am using now is from Swankfly, but now that he is out of the stove business Zelph at Woodgaz stoves is the guy to get them now.  My other go to is the Solo Stove wood gas stove.  I absolutely love this stove.
I also have the MSR Whisper lite, a great liquid fuel (multi fuel) stove.  Then there are a few more alcohol stoves.  The Trangia, which is an indestructible stove.  Its Swedish construction is second to none.  The Mini heat from  Smokeeater 908.  Cool remote feed stove that is build like a tank, but so light you don’t know its in your pack.  Tato Gear’s AB13 Hybrid alcohol stove is another stove that I like to throw in the pack from time to time.  Great for baking, the remote feed allows for hours of cooking on a single light.
I have a collection of canister stoves, the Snow Peak Giga Power, MSR Pocket Rocket, and a few Jet Boil systems along with Esbit solid fuel stoves.
So I like stoves.
But what am I allowed to use in the BSA?  All of the above.
The official BSA policy is simple.  As long as you did not make it, you can use it.
You can use alcohol, as long as you use denatured alcohol.  You can use White gas, Diesel, kerosene, and solid fuel like the Esbit fuel tabs.
You can not make a pop can stove.  I suppose the BSA is leary of Scouts not doing it right.  In fact the policy says you can’t make your own stove period.
Fuels are to be used as intended and carried in a fuel container that is designed for that purpose.  For example, if you are using Denatured Alcohol, you need to carry it in a fuel bottle.  Putting your fuel in an old pop bottle or generic bottle is not authorized.
So the myth of Alcohol stoves being banned is just that.. a myth.
The myth that you can not use wood stoves.. just that… a myth.
Liquid fuel stoves too dangerous for Scouts and therefore banned.. a myth.
I was told that wood gas stoves can not be used because you can’t turn them off.  Huh, what?  Can’t turn them off?  You can put out a fire in a fire pit right?  Then you can put out a wood gas stove.
Alcohol and wood stoves can not be regulated.. they are on or off.  Ahhh.. again, nope, not in all cases.  Trangia, Esbit, Solo, and remote Feed stoves all can be snuffed out and regulated for temperature.
So again.. myth busted.
In my last post I encouraged you to allow alternative gear to be used.  Allow the Scouts to seek adventure and try new things.  When it comes to stoves, really there are not many restrictions other than making your own.
Here is what it comes down to.  Training.
You teach the Scout to use the Coleman two burner stove right?  Then teach him to use an alcohol stove properly.
Teach him to use his MSR pocket rocket or Dragon fly the right way and it will serve it’s purpose without anyone getting hurt.
When the Scout is properly trained and trusted, he will do the right thing and have fun in his outdoor experience.
Technology and research have produced some really cool stoves.  Let them try it.
Many Scouts in my Troop have started using the Vargo Titanium stove.  They are available at REI and other out fitters.
They are solid as Sears and work great.  They can be turned off (or put out) and get a good boil or simmer if you need it.
They are nice an light and you can cook what ever you would cook on your Coleman stove with them.  And we allow them to use them because they can.
I highly recommend this as a great stove to get Scouts and Scouters into using Alcohol Stoves.
Here is the Vargo Official Video for the Triad Alcohol Stove.

So that’s what you can use… Stoves.  Most all of them are available to your Scouts.  Do not make up policy because you are afraid of change.  Do not be set in your ways so a Scout does not get the chance to explore.  Don’t give in to the myths that have been passed down from one old Scouter to the next.
The fact is, there are lots of choices out there.  Exploring is part of the Scouting way.
Give them a try.
Have a Great Scouting Day!

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Gear Alternatives

SAM_0008As you know by reading the blog, I am a fan of gear.  I like to play around with gear, test it, try it, and change it often.  There are pieces of gear that I love and pieces of gear that I am always looking for the newer, better, more efficient, or just cool.  Lately I have been in a few discussions about some gear like knives and stoves.  What is significant about these discussions is the idea that for a lot of Scouters there is little knowledge about what is allowed, what is not, and what is out there to show to your Scouts as gear choices.
Take a look at all the old Field books and Hand books, Peek into the Boy Scout catalogs, it’s all the same stuff.  All the old-time tested and true gear.  It all works well and is super reliable.  I don’t have a problem with any of it, but just because it has always been there and done that way does not make it the only or best way to do it.
At a few recent Boy Scout break outs at round table we have talked about gear and gear alternatives.  Much of the discussion focusing on stoves and knives.  As discussed in my recent post “The Great Knife Debate“, it amazes me that many Scouters just do not know the rules.  They perpetuate a rule that does not exist for what ever reason, but the net result is not the safety of the Scout, but a lack of exposure to new and different ways of doing the same old thing.  The same can be said for alcohol stoves.  The BSA has prohibited the use of “Homemade” stoves.  And I can see that the BSA does not want some Scout to get hurt because his leaders failed to train him on how to do it right.  But the use of alcohol stoves in general is not prohibited.  Manufactured of purchased stoves are not prohibited and I am glad for that.  I exclusively use an alcohol stove and scouts in my troop are using them also.  I teach them how and make sure they do it right.  There is nothing unsafe about them, well, they are about as unsafe as using an MSR Whisperlite.  It comes down to training them to use it correctly.  Stores like REI and many online outdoor outfitter are selling alcohol stoves.  And the fact is you can use them to cook anything.
I can bake, fry, simmer, and of course boil water with them.  Here is the point.  They are an alternative way to do the same old thing.  Camping, Cooking, sleeping in a shelter, whether that is a tent, a tarp, or a bivy sack is all the same.  Camping is camping.  There are many methods and ways to go about it, but in the end it’s all the same.
You also know that I am a big fan of wood stoves (like the Solo Stove).  They are a great way to cook.  It takes a little skill and you can absolutely cook anything with them.  I have had Scouters tell me that one can not use them because you can’t turn them off.  Huh? What?  First Class Requirement 4 e states; On one camp out, serve as your patrol’s cook. Supervise your assistant(s) in using a stove or building a cooking fire. Prepare the breakfast, lunch, and dinner planned in requirement 4a. In the most previous edition of the Boy Scout handbook Second Class requirement 2g required the Scout to;  On one camp out, plan and cook over an open fire one hot breakfast or lunch for yourself, selecting foods from the food pyramid. Explain the importance of good nutrition. Tell how to transport, store, and prepare the foods you selected.
So in one edition of the hand book, we have decided to dumb down the Scouting experience not make it a requirement to cook over an open fire, but it’s a choice.  But it’s still there and it always has been.  But in checking the Guide to Safe Scouting I can’t find anywhere that suggests wood stoves are prohibited or cooking over an open flame is prohibited because you can’t put it out.  You see, to me that is just a way for Scouters to impose a rule that is not there when it comes to gear.
There are lots of great gear alternatives out there.  Allow your Scouts to explore them.
Many of the Scouts in my troop are moving to camping under tarps.  Some are using you standard 10X10 Wal Mart tarp, while most are going to good camping tarps.  SilNylon tarps that are light and easy to put up.  Some even have built-in doors and can be pitched between trees or using their trekking poles.  I love the idea that the Scouts are exploring different gear and ways to camp.  It keeps it fun and exciting for them.
I suppose the bottom line is that there are many options out there, as a Scouter you should gain an understanding and knowledge of that gear and not push it aside just because you don’t like it.
We had this same debate during the 2010 National Jamboree.  Many ‘older Scouters’ did not like the idea of allowing the Scouts to bring and use “Electronics”.  There was a misconceptions that electronics are not allowed in Scouting.  No where is this found in writing.  I allowed the Scouts of my Jamboree Troop to bring their “electronics”.  Cell phones, Ipods, and of course cameras.  I wanted them to be able to communicate with me and other Scouts, I wanted to be able to shoot a text to the troop when I needed to make quick contact with them.  I wanted the Senior Patrol Leader to be able to get everyone on the bus on time and sent group texts to better communicate with his Troop.  We established “No ear bid zones”  Touring at Arlington National Cemetery for example was a No Ear Bud zone.  Sitting on the bus for two hours however was not.  As long as the Scouts obeyed the rules, I allowed them to use the electronics.
The same goes for their gear.  As long as they use it as intended, be it a stove, knife, or any other piece of gear, I allow and encourage them to try new things.
This is a big part of the adventure of Scouting.
Get to know some new gear.  Pick something to try with your Scouts.  Try something new.
Allow the adventure of Scouting to happen.

Have a Great Scouting Day!

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You make the call…

At the end of the summer myself another leader and a couple of Scouts from my Troop, both Eagle Scouts, took a four hour road trip South to attend our Sections Conclave.  It was just another four hours in the car until we started a conversation that lasted the better part of three hours.  In this conversation the subject of life choices came up.  You see one of the Scouts is a very out going young man.  He is very active in his community, student government, sports, band, and an active social life.  The other would be considered his opposite.  While he participated in sports, and drama, he feels as though he is the one on the outside looking in.  And so the discussion went.  One contrasting the other.  But the question was why is that?  What makes these two young men so different?  They grew up in same community.  Both from good homes, Attended the same High School, and both active in Scouting (Eagle Scouts and Arrowmen).
Now, I am not saying one is better than the other here… I was just asking why?  But in fact, the more the conversation went deeper, the more I wanted so much for the Scout with less friends and social life to be like the other.  Why?  Because the social one had what seemed to be a better outlook on life.
What it came down to was choices.  Making a choice not to be the guy in the corner, making a choice to step out of the comfort zone and meet new people, make new friends, and discover new things.  While the other was clearly not having a great high school experience and felt like everyone was against him.
He did not believe that he had the ability to make a choice to have a different experience, while his companion on the trip felt like his entire high school experience revolved around those choices he made.
Both of these young men are Honor Roll students, so both are smart and articulate.  They have the faculties to make sound decisions and choices.  So what is it?
We never answered that question, but did come up with 5 things that would help, as they said, if we had to do it over again.  First.  Make a choice to have the experience you want.  If you want to play the victim, That will be the choice you make.  You can chose not to be and do things in your life to curb that mentality.
First.  Know that you and only you have a choice to make.  You will decide whether or not you want to set a course for discovery or to hide inside of yourself.  You will make a choice to make friends or not make friends.  With that choice though, you need to know that the world is not against you and you must do at least half the work.  You can not expect friendships and opportunities to just happen, you need to work at them and create them.  Your mind will be the starting point.  Get it in your mind to make the right choice and you will find the path that will lead you there.
Second.  Break things down into smaller parts.  We discovered in our talk that in most cases those that have a difficult time making friends or feeling left out expect to much to soon.  Break things down.  Start small.  Opportunities in life happen in bite size chunks.  Financially, we do not wait around to hit the lotto.. we get a job and work our way up to bigger and better opportunities, better pay and position.  So it is with most things in life.  Start small and set small, short term goals.  These will lead you to bigger goals and better opportunities.  Again, you need to make a choice to go that route.. or sit around and wait for the right balls to drop in your favor.  Keep waiting, the odds are against you.
The third thing is to Never give up.  Never, ever give up.  The world is not against you, in fact, the world doesn’t know you so don’t give up on yourself.  When you reach a point in life when the going gets tough or you have reached an obstacle that seems insurmountable.. find another way.  Every time I have been in that situation I look for a way to get around it.  I do not let it beat me.  If plan “a” doesn’t work, go to plan “b”.  If that fails you move on to “c” and so on… Sometimes you will get all the way to plan “x, y, and z” before you need to reevaluate, but never give up.  I typically get to about “D” and then figure there may be something wrong with me or my approach.  You need to be willing to accept that sometimes it is you and not the process or other people.  You can be wrong, but don’t give up or in.  There are ways to accomplish your goals, you may just have to come at it from different avenues.  Never give up, especially on yourself.
Fourth, have a Positive outlook.  If you choose to look at life from a negative point of view that is what you will see.  I am not saying that you put on rose colored glasses, but look at life for what it is.  Great!  Life is full of opportunity, you just need to go get it.  Life is full of fun, you just need to find it.  Life is full of adventure, you just need to grab it.  The common point there is YOU.  You need to be positive and accepting of the fact that YOU are in charge of your outlook.. no one else.  If you think that You are wrong.
And finally, realize that you can have results or make excuses… but you can’t have both.  Results will get you want in life.  Excuses will get you nothing.  So pick one, Results or Excuses.  I can’t stand people that make excuses, it is lazy and demonstrates a lack of personal accountability.  The person that blames life on their condition is just being lazy and unwilling to work for results.  Like I said, the world is not against you.. the world doesn’t know you.  Your class mates are not against you, you are not willing to make it work or do the work to make friends.  You need to look in the mirror and realize that there are people just like you, they all need friends and relationships.  They all want acceptance and a sense of belonging.  Find them.. do the work.  Not everyone is a jock, not everyone plays in the band, not everyone is a Scout or into the drama or chess club.  Find the group that you belong to and embrace them.  Don’t make excuses that no one likes you.. maybe it’s you.  Maybe you have not allowed them to like you or opened the door for that friendship.  Maybe it is you that has not worked hard enough to get that raise or promotion.  Maybe it is you that has had a bad attitude and no one wants it to rub off on them.  Maybe it is time to stop making excuses and go get results.
You and only you have 100% control over you.  No matter what your age, ethnicity, race, religion, whatever.. YOU control You.
So you make the call?  Have you made a choice to do something with your life?  Have you broken it down to smaller parts to manage your goals better?  Have you given up?  Do you have a positive outlook?  And you want Results or keep making excuses?  It is simple, but it starts with you and a choice.
You make the call.

Have a Great Scouting Day!

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