Selfish.

Monday night at our Troop meeting I gave the Scoutmaster minute as always.  This weeks topic focused on not being selfish.
It is so easy to be a selfish person in our world today.  We tend to focus on what’s in it for me and what ever is good for me is the direction we head.  The selfish attitude that prevails in the world today is the cause of much heart ache, crime, and unrest.
Monday I talked about the Scout Oath and the fact that it is a promise made not to be selfish.  When you pledge your honor you are saying that I will not be a selfish person.
I will do my duty to my God and My Country.  Not that I expect anything in return.  It is simply my duty and I will do it.  I promise to help other people at all times.  Help.  This one is all about other people.. nothing to do with me.  And when I help I don’t need any praise, payment, or award.  I just want to be helpful.  And then there are the three promises that wrap up the Oath.  To keep myself Physically strong, so I can be of help to other people and set an example of good living and health.  To keep myself Mentally awake, so I can serve others and be aware of what is around me.  So I can learn and grow so that I can assist those that need help learning.  So I can be a leader in my world.  And to keep myself Morally straight.  Values that I learn and share are the cornerstone of my life and the more I demonstrate that I want to live right and do the right thing makes me a good member of my community.  And as a good member of the community I help others and make my community a better place to live.
The Scout Oath is about other people and how I am going to be a person that is productive, helpful, compassionate, caring, and a member of my community that makes the world a better place.
Yesterday we had a tragic event happen in our community. 
WARNING.   I AM GOING TO OFFEND HERE AND I DON’T CARE!
Yesterday a person.. who cares what his name is, he died a disgusting individual, entered a mall and began shooting.  He killed two people and like the coward that he is shot himself.  That is the best part of the story.. that he shot himself.  He saved the tax payers of this state lots of money and time that we would have to hear how he was “a troubled young man”, that “he played video games and they made him do it”, that “if he did not have access to guns, he would not have done this”, that “it’s not fair to hold him accountable for his actions, the crazy world made him do it.”
Yeah… that sounds harsh, but already we are hearing on the news that “No one saw this coming” and that “he was a good boy”.  Bull.
You don’t wake up one morning and put on camouflage clothing, body armor, and go into a mall loaded to take over Baghdad and start shooting on a whim.  I don’t care what this bums name is, I don’t want to know and I don’t think that the media should ever say it.  He should be a nameless individual that did a horrific thing.  He should not be made a victim and he should not be memorialized like Lee Harvey Oswald.  He did nothing heroic and he did nothing that should warrant a place in history.  A two-bit criminal that took two lives.
I got in a discussion today with a person that was so concerned about him and what troubled him enough to do this.  I simplified the discussion by saying that he did not have a firm foundation of values.  Had he, he could not have done such a terrible thing.  Being mentally awake and morally straight, he would have got as far as the body armor and said… nah.. this aint right.  He would have looked in the mirror and decided to do something good yesterday instead of killing two people.  “What about drugs and that kind of thing?”  Physically strong, mentally awake, morally straight.  Living those promises won’t allow for you to go down that road.
I am ridiculous I suppose I live in a dream world thinking that it is that simple.  Well guess what folks.  It really is that simple.
I have said it before and I will say it again.  There is no substitute for values and there is no reason not have them.  Just because you are poor, a minority, or not in the best of circumstances does not give you a free pass on being a person without values.
Enter the parents.  I can go on and on about this… but that is always the first question I ask.  Where are they, who are they, and why did they not teach this kid the difference between right and wrong.
I have always told my kids to “Say it out loud”.  If it does not sound right, then it isn’t.
Try it.  Say this:  “I am going to drive my car into that 7-11.”  Does it sound right?  NO.  Then don’t do it.
“I am going to walk into the mall dressed in camo and start shooting”.  Just does not sound right does it.  So who taught this monster the difference between what is right and what is wrong.
When our Scouts come to me for Scoutmaster conferences we talk about the Scout Oath and Law.  I demand that they live them every day and I do not settle for easy answers.  I force the conversation and make them respond.  Is this above and beyond the requirement?  NO.  I sign the book before we start talking.  Scouting is not about Eagle Scouts, Merit Badges, and camp outs.  It is about teaching young people to make ethical and moral decisions throughout their life times.  It is about a Promise that they make to not be selfish.
We have enough stupid people in the world.  We have enough selfish people in the world.  We have enough sick people in the world.  Our answer is something we Scout leaders can effect change in.  The Oath and Law.
Imagine that.
Have a Great Scouting Day!

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6 thoughts on “Selfish.

  1. Kirbster

    Well said! As an exapmle, the shooter gets front page news but a Group of 4 heroic scouts from my home town saved a fellow scout from a frozen lake are relagated to page 6 lower left hand corner under the Haskels Liqour store ad. and they say there is no bias in the media. Follow the link below to read about our Scouts!

    http://www.northernstarbsa.org/News.aspx?articleID=1367

  2. Allan Green

    Kirbster, I see something profound in your statement. The Media (almost all of the people involved in providing us our news) do not believe in what we do. Our scouting values were defined and codified in a past period of our history, and the Media do not believe anyone should follow them any more (too old fashioned). So they hold up a killer as someone to be pitied, and they put down a hero as someone to be ignored, if not laughed at for being so “old fashioned”. Sometimes I wish we could just turn them off, and be done with it. Thank God that in this information age, we do not have to subscribe to their monopoly on thought.

  3. Proud Mom

    Amen!

  4. Don’t hold anything back, Jerry…

    Here’s where I will take this one step further…the media will talk about this guy and how warped he was and make sure that everyone will remember his name. Personally, I could cop a squat in the woods on this guy’s name, but nobody, except for the ones who loved them and a few other caring souls, will remember the victims names and what those victims meant to someone else.

    Conversations that people have with me, especially conversations about topics like this or even Jerry Sandusky, go nowhere with me. They try to make their point about the perpetrator, and in this case, I say to them “hmm, yea…and he killed people” or in the case of Sandusky, “oh, yea…and young men were molested”. In a lot of these cases, why wonder why…just think about the victims and how they are no longer hear because of a coward who didn’t have any values.

    And to signing the book as soon as they sit down, I do that too… :)

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