“You are either part of the problem or part of the solution…” a great approach to being a part of an organization. You truly are either part of the problem or part of the solution. When we teach our Scouts how to lead, being part of the solution is the driving force that they need to quickly embrace and practice. Never is it ok for a leader to be a part of the problem. We and the youth leaders of our units are problem solvers.. never problem makers.
I never allow a youth leader to make excuses.. there are none, ever. We are accountable for our actions, decisions, and the outcomes of our leadership. It’s never the committees fault, the districts fault, or the council’s fault. We are unit leaders, us and the youth, and we run our units. If something is broke, we fix it.
Last year during our recharter, a couple of our Scouts were inadvertently dropped in Scout Net. Now I could have raised hell and blamed everyone and their brother.. but what good does it do? Rather, we took our copy of the application down to the Scout office and got it fixed. Real simple. What shocked me though was when the gal at the Council service desk informed me that usually this issue is met with irate leaders that want satisfaction. Satisfaction at what expense? Tearing into someones hide? Very Scout like don’t you think? Lets assume that all of our units do a good job at record keeping. Well then there is no issue, right.. we just take down our copy and done.
We are either part of the problem or part of the solution. It is easy to point fingers and assume that things will be messed up. Patrol leaders try this all the time. They try to pass the buck or play the blame game. This is always a great teaching opportunity.
In my Troop we use the Happy Hand approach to rules.
1. Hold up your Thumb.. Everything is OK.. working together we will get through it.
2. Your Pointer Finger is not to be used to point at anyone.. remember there are 3 fingers pointing back.
3. Your Middle finger is never to be used by itself.
4. The Ring finger represents committment. We are committed to each other all the time.
5. The pinky finger is fragile… A reminder to be safe.
Everything there keeps us in the problem solving game and not the blame game. Teach the Scouts to solve problems and seek areas to improve. Never allow finger pointing and backing out of events because they think it will not be worth their time. So many times Scouts with great attitudes can swing a sub standard event. I have seen it many times.
If they want to complain, they need to offer a solution.
NOW.. that goes for you adults to… How you act is how your Scouts will act. You are either part of the problem or part of the solution. PICK ONE.
Have a Great Scouting Day!